All last year I thought, if I’m going to move to California, I need to start clearing stuff out of this house and simplifying my life. I won’t be able to afford three bedrooms in California. I need to get this place back down to one before I try to move it.It never happened, and neither did California. Which is fine, especially since the state is almost bankrupt now (maybe I dodged a bullet there).And then came one night a few weeks ago where my boyfriend confronted me on the phone, saying, “Is this thing going anywhere? Because I want to get married and have kids and if that’s not going to happen with you, I need to move on.”He ... more
